Build the stage around the show...Little people 6 months through
4 years old, deserve special "handle with care" treatment. Nurturing the needs
of each child, allowing them to unfold at their natural pace. To optimize your aquatic
classroom for learning, combine an interactive curriculum with a well organized, yet
spontaneous lesson plan. Together with mom and dad, through games, songs, laughter and
engaging activities, you can create a warm, loving and safe environment.
Baby
swimming has many positive benefits, like sunken treasures
beckoning to be discovered. In order to unveil these awaiting treasures, we need to
build the stage around the show, to adapt the class to the level of experience and
understanding of the children involved. Introduce skills when the children are relaxed and
ready, and only skills that are age and developmentally appropriate, accommodating for
individual differences. Patience, consistency, play, repetition, commitment and positive
parenting are the pillars of a successful program.
However, these treasures of the water are just as easily denied if children are not treated with dignity, understanding or respect. The program needs to be
taught from the childs point of reference, teaching them the way that they would
want to be taught. Placing adult values and compressed time frames on infants and toddlers
creates an imbalance and undue stress on all parties concerned. If skill acquisition
becomes the only goal, meaningful learning on many levels can be lost. The priority must
be focused on the positive development of the whole child, with swimming
skills mastered as the child's capabilities and "readiness" allows.
Parents should never let panic (the fear of drowning) dictate an aggressive/intensive course of
action in swimming lessons. "To avert an even graver outcome, great care must
be taken." (Omega) We must distinguish between short - term quick fix remedies and long-term
responsible positive cures. A comprehensive strategy for water safety needs to be
implemented, of which swimming is a part, however, the well being of the child should
never be sacrificed in swim lessons to meet this end. Parents need to be well informed and
implement all aspects of water safety. (i.e.. supervision, barriers, pool safety fencing,
CPR and child centered swimming lessons).
Swim lessons were never meant to be grim.
Infants and toddlers should never be exploited in swim lessons to fulfill
the accelerated expectations of a teacher or parent. Whether created out of a
fear of drowning, compressed
time frames, financial short-cuts or impatience. Parents need to realize that
they can not live vicariously through their child's accelerated achievements.
Children should feel safe, be
comfortable and experience trust. Pressuring children as a "necessary
evil" to submit to rigid techniques
and skills in swimming lessons that they are not ready for lacks compassion and understanding.
This should not be a race for gold medals or a quest for imposed survival
swimming. Often these "firm but gentle" techniques fueled by
fear, place more emphasis on the firm than on the gentle. Society has learned that
perpetrating violence or aggression toward children, perpetuates a cycle of violence
and aggression. An adult simply
would not tolerate such unrelenting acts of domination when used against them. Babies are
not capable of fighting back. The emotional well of an infant runs deep; they
possess a keen awareness of what is happening to them. Often the only avenue available to
communicate their distress is through crying or non-verbal symptoms. These protests are
not manipulation as their fears are real. Too much stress to the innocent child can lead
to a surrender and malnutrition of the spirit. Science has documented the fact that the
seeds we sow in infancy, both negative and positive have a profound influence on the
development of the mental and emotional blue print for the child's entire life. Dominating
or forceful methodologies fail to see the whole picture or the whole child. Intended to
give parents "peace of mind", they throw the childs "peace of
mind" right out the window. It is crucial to approach baby swimming more in human
terms and less in clinical terms. The ripple of a pebble in the pond's smooth
waters, radiates outward in multiple concentric circles. So to does our teaching
influence, affecting our young students on multiple levels. Not only must we
seek the beauty of aquatic motion, but also tap into to the beauty of the child.
Those individuals committed to this endeavor must be
devoted to the highest good of each child with whom they come in contact.

Children should enjoy the water experience from day one,
providing a rich, supportive setting allowing them to develop into healthy and happy
individuals, as well as competent swimmers. Parents (and teachers) need to be
relaxed, in tune with their child and create a positive, proactive and happy atmosphere.
It is important that they too enjoy class. Children need to be comfortable and confident
above water before they can ever begin to swim with their face in. Celebrate each small
step along the way. Create an environment that unlocks the sunken treasures, generating a
life long love and respect of the water, as well as, a life long hunger for learning
and exploration. All serving as a catalyst, planting a seed, for the child to
reach their full potential.
| The first three years of a child's life are
the most impressionable. What occurs during this critical and formative window of time
will have a dramatic effect on the child for the rest of their lives. Swimming is often
the first organized activity on their journey of life. As privileged stewards, parents and
swim teachers owe it to these budding water babies to make this an uplifting, joyous
experience. Our hope is that these children will grow into well adjusted and caring adults,
living a fruitful life, contributing to society and our beautiful water
planet in a positive way. |

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